Safe experiments when the talking has to stop and Expressive Arts can start

I have come hot foot from a PESI presentation by Cathy Malchiodi. (December 2020).

I’ve tended to be troubled by my two left feet when it comes to using movement in therapy. Cathy was able to describe how two left feet may be irrelevant and, indeed, could be overcome – to my benefit and, if all is well, to people who work with me.

Let me tell you more. Her presentation helpfully connected her expressive arts practice to the trauma-related work of Peter Levine, Stephen Porges and Pat Ogden’s Sensori-motor approach.

Why did this getting me going? Her account was straightforward, clear and practical. It was grounded in modern neuro-science. It related easily, in my view,  to other pages on this web site such as:

https://your-nudge.com/what-are-the-two-siblings/

https://your-nudge.com/anxiety-and-the-older-not-so-smart-sibling/

https://your-nudge.com/how-humans-emerged-in-their-present-form/

Each of these pages, and more on the web site, place emphasis on the neural pathways in the human brain and body. We know those pathways work from back to front  – our visual systems depend on that.  Also, as Eye Movement De-sensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) demonstrates, there are left to right neural pathways. Eye movement and tapping are just two ways to stimulate connections between the left and right halves of our nervous system.

Elsewhere, I have talked about top-to-bottom connections. These enable our smarter and younger sibling to have a relationship with the not-so-smart and older sibling. Cathy’s presentation was making the point that you safe experiments can be designed to work from top-to-bottom (where thoughts and beliefs can influence our actions) as well as bottom-to-top (where actions can start to change thoughts and beliefs).  This is important as many people experiencing trauma will not have words to explain themselves – maybe just the vaguest sense of something-not-being-quite-right.  This can happen where trauma occurs before we learn to speak or when the experience is so outside our ability to absorb it that we disconnect it from the rest of our being. The Vagus nerve ‘helps’ us  in rather a radical fashion when trauma threatens our very existence and we may be about to die.

For some people the inability to put things into words can be embarrassing and even shaming. I can feel shame when I cannot express myself; my trauma, alone, provides ample material for feeling that way.   At this point, relying on words is going to reinforce the problem, not relieve it. More importantly, finding a way through from non-verbal expression towards saying something is not straightforward; it follows a scenic route. In time, our ability to string words into sentences can recover. However, if you have a gobby therapist, as I am, there are strict limits to the process of working it out with words.

This disconnect that I have described can manifest in Dissociation.

Cathy, and others like Pat Ogden are saying – in effect – that talking is not enough. You can hear more about this on YouTube. It is aimed at therapists so you may need to forgive the implicit talking down to yourself if you are a ‘client’!  You may find Pat Ogden herself of interest as well.

There is more about trauma-informed expressive arts on this web site.

Some safe experiments in expressive arts

Many of my readers will be more experienced in the expressive arts – writing, acting, singing, painting, sculpting and dancing to name just a few. Some will be very active, say, climbing and sail-boarding so you have a head start on me.

However, I have already touched on some experiments that are relevant here; for example,

  • the butterfly hug. Cathy adds some other movements to this. I have mentioned the left and right alternative taps. Cathy includes gentle, small rotations of your upper torso.  I’d emphasise that – in my view – the best safe experiments are small and small movements may be important so we do not overdo things. .
  • a new safe experiment she mentioned was to clench our hands together and do a sideways ‘eight’ or infinity movement.
  • truth is, as I have said in actual sessions, any movement can qualify – even getting up and down. If you think about it, taking time out – simply getting away – is a safe experiment requiring movement.
  • Ther are bodywork movements that address this strategy systematically: yoga, pilates and Eastern meditative traditions. Elsewhere, I mention Morita Therapy – brought to my attention by David Brazier.

What other ones might you incorporate into your own safe experiments?

In addition  to all this, Cathy’s work relates closely to the work of Pam Levin, a Transactional Analytically informed practitioner who wrote Cycles of Power back in 1988.  I hope to say mroe about  Pam’s work and there is a brief mention available lower down on this page.

For the present, I will simply reproduce Pam’s stage of human grouwth and development as:

BEING

DOING

THINKING

IDENTITY

BEING SKILFUL

REGENERATION

….. put it altogether into RECYCLING

….. Otherwise, watch this space!!

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