Here is a list of books from published authors working in the world of therapy. It is an arbitrary list, and it may help you dip into relevant topics and explore the views of other people.
Siegel, D. J. (2010). Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation. New York: Bantam Books.
Siegel, D. J. (2018). The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. 3rd ed. New York: Guilford Press.